Feeling Guilty
When you've been raised into a society where nudity is frowned upon, many secret naturists, though not all, may find themselves experiencing feelings of guilt about their nudity, about their activities as a secret naturist. For some, these feelings do not arise, for some they are not an issue but for others it can be quite a problem. Feeling guilty after or during a secret naturist outing is an aspect of secret naturism we may need to deal with.
Let me start off by asking the question, why do we feel guilty? For myself personally, I think its down to the fact that we are doing something rather naughty, something that does not fit easily with the normal rules of society, perhaps doing something that is regarded as weird or stupid. We may not be actually breaking any laws as such, but we still feel uneasy about our activities. Secrecy may also come into it. By keeping our activities secret from family and close friends we may also be adding to our burden of guilt.
Personally, I'm no stranger to these feelings of guilt. On occasions in the past I've felt extremely uncomfortable about what I've been doing. On one such occasion I recall, I'd simply been out for a nude ramble in some woodland. I met no-one during the visit but on the drive home I felt that bad about what I'd done that I actually threw my bumbag with all my secret naturist clothing out the window! (I did return the next day to retrieve them but was unable to find them!)
There have also been times when an particular event has triggered these feelings, for example, when I've been seen naked or when I've had a close call. Strangely, I find that the late evening is often the time when I wonder what I'm doing with this secret naturist lark. Conversely, in early mornings, I find I'm very enthusiastic about secret naturism and want to get out there and get naked.
But when you actually look at it, there is really no reason why you need feel guilty, ashamed or uncomfortable about being a secret naturist. We are usually alone when naked and offend no-one. We are not causing any damage to property and we go out of our way to avoid people and causing them any embarrassment. What is wrong with being naked? After all we are born naked and the only real reason we need clothing is to keep warm.
There are, of course, other reasons, such as those deemed by society in general but physically we only need clothing to keep warm. When we look at some of the so-called primitive cultures found in warmer parts of the world, clothing only came into use after Christian missionaries came on the scene. At risk of being controversial I think that the bible and religion have much to answer for.
These days I find it much easier to cope with the odd occasion when I feel guilty about being a secret naturist. It's all down to mental attitude. When I find myself feeling guilty I just remind myself that I'm doing nothing wrong. I was born naked and that's the way I was meant to be. Society might frown upon my activities but I not breaking any laws and I'm not doing any harm to anyone.
Secret naturism is natural. It is simply the enjoyment of being naked in a variety of locations, while at the same time avoiding contact with members of the public. What is wrong with walking naked along a beach, rambling naked through a patch of woodland or riding a bike naked along a country lane? There is nothing wrong with any of these activities.
There have been times when I've tried to avoid anything to do with secret naturist, sometimes going so far as to destroy my secret naturism clothing and equipment and even erasing any web site I had online at the time. Yet I always eventually hear the call of the secret naturist. Often in the early morning I would get up and walk naked around the cool of the house and feel alive and refreshed. I would find myself standing naked on an exposed mountain top and realise that this is the only way to experience the world we live in, naked, barefoot and unashamed. Secret naturism is nothing to feel guilty about.