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ellar

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tattoos - need advice
« on: January 08, 2022, 06:07:30 PM »
I have never tried naturism in a social setting, like a naturist reservation or a public nudist beach, but I would like to do so in the future. However, I have quite a number of tattoos on me, a small number of which are rather sexually explicit. One of them is the size of a palm (Lola bunny bent over), the other the size of a magazine cover ( a porn star pleasuring herself). Both of them are placed on my thighs, so they are covered by clothing, even during the summer. Now, I am not ashamed of them or anything, I got them done a way back and for my pleasure only, but I do know as much that social nudism is about being comfortable in your own skin and is not about being sexual. Also, it is supposed to be kid friendly according to my understanding. Given all this, would my tattoos cause me any trouble in a social nudist setting? Would I be asked to leave the venue because of them? Personally I do not consider them to be of bad taste as I have seen tattoos much more extreme than mine, but my sensibilities are not of others, so...

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« Reply #1 on: January 09, 2022, 07:32:26 AM »
You'd probably get by on a typical nude beach. There is no real authority. I remember a guy who just got out of prison, who had a flame on his penis, that could grow. But it would depend on the ownership/management at a privately owned resort. You need to ask them individually, or wait for them to say something. No telling what the people around you would react like.

Then, there are some resorts that tolerate, or encourage swinger lifestyle, if you don't mind them.

Lola Bunny bent over! How would you know that it was her? In the short shorts, I presume? If you see her face, then on a thigh would the face be close to your...indeed very curious, Ellar.

 Some people have genital jewelry purely as a sexual fetish that gets seen. This sounds like a lot of "Depends."
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« Reply #2 on: January 16, 2022, 11:53:31 PM »
I guess it depends where you go as to the reaction you get.
My guess and hope is that most naturists would be entirely tolerant.
My own views on tattoos I have expressed here before i.e. that I can't understand why one would want to have something that permanent for life.  Everything changes over time...except tattoos.  I might wear something that could be temporarily attached but I can't abide the thought of a mark on my body that I have no choice over after it was applied.  Since tats seem to be everywhere these days, It would seem my opinion is a bit outdated! One thing that extensive tattooing does, say if you have an arm or a leg red with them is it makes you rather appear clothed even when naked.  Not great naturism perhaps! :)
So, Ellar what was your reasoning for having very sexually explicit tattoos? 
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« Reply #3 on: January 17, 2022, 07:18:29 PM »
Yea, Nuduke, I like flexibility, change, natural less touched beauty and being naked, so personally a tattoo isn't for me.
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ellar

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« Reply #4 on: January 17, 2022, 07:43:31 PM »
@jbeegoode - regarding Lola bunny, you can see her face, but it is facing outwards, not in the direction you are implying. And her short shorts are at knee level ;)

@nuduje - the thing about tattoos is that once you get them you want to display them, so the more you have to more skin you are showing willingly. I never felt about my ink as a substitute for clothing, I just like the looks of it on my body, I feel more confident and attractive with them than without. As per the sexually explicit tattoos, I really enjoy erotic art in general. And for both of my explicit tattoos, I came across either a style or idea soo good, I just had to have them on me. There is no specific meaning behind them other than I enjoy them and i wanted them. I probably going to get more of them eventually, just not that much more, as I am going to run out of the strategically available space for such art. Would very much love to have a full sleeve of erotic art, but I do work in an office, paycheck to paychek, so I cant afford any jobstopper tattoos.

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« Reply #5 on: January 18, 2022, 05:25:38 PM »
Nuduke commented: "One thing that extensive tattooing does, say if you have an arm or a leg red with them is it makes you rather appear clothed even when naked.  Not great naturism perhaps!"

This question always has had me pondering and curious about perceptions. If one is covered by tattoos, then they aren't actually naked? They are naked if there is no covering. But, wearing tattoos just ain't covering enough to walk down the street. Wearing a tattoo can be "look at me" but they are often placed in discrete places to not be seen. Private tattoos. You appear "covered with tattoos"? People hide tattoos of people wearing clothing. Are tattoos sexy and used like clothing to augment sexual expressions?

Some of the above make common sense, but does any of it make rational sense at all? These are bodies, of which being seen should be no big deal, an essence of reality against projected perception. Ultimately, it is a body with the addition of a tattoo...around we go.

If you are ejected from a resort because of the sexual expression of your tattoo, it would be because you have the inability to become actually naked...there it goes again...
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« Reply #6 on: January 20, 2022, 11:45:51 PM »
Yes, ellar, the one thing I would not challenge you on is your choices.  From what you say, your choices seem to be from particularly definite and positive reasoning so that's body freedom in action and that you have a preference for similar subjects in addition to the tattoos is similarly positive.  What's a shame is that society imposes its narrower minded boundaries i.e. as you observe, there are "jobstopper tattoos" for some firms.
I believe there's a long and varied history to tats going back to prehistory.  The extensive use of tattooing amongst american, australasian, african and indo-pacific peoples was, to invading and colonising western nations, an indicator of primitive cultures and of 'the heathen', consequently were not the 'done thing' in western Europe. Perhaps that attitude even colours attitudes to them today. Evidently early western explorers didn't have a word for it, I read.  When I was a lad in northern UK in the 50's and 60s, tats were the preserve of the likes of sailors and labourers and never usually found on women(or seen, although they were there alright).  A decade later they were discovered by members countercultures (and I think were always a counterculture thing in many nations) and so again were considered marginal.  Quite when tattooing became so outrageously popular in the modern west, however, I don't know but I have observed its popularity mushroom in, say, the last couple of decades.  It's an interesting thing that high profile people such as rock stars and models who change their fashion and evolve their styles, nowadays often have tats which don't change ever.  I find that strange that they make such permanent choices in an impermanent world.
However, I am aware I'm talking from a knowledge base of zilch!  That's all just my personal view.
That you say "I feel more confident and attractive with them" seems reason enough, I guess.
Hope you continue to get enjoyment and reinforcement out of your tats.  Maybe you might post a picture?
John