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Selfish
« on: March 16, 2023, 01:58:55 AM »
I am all loaded up for the local Burningman event that begins tomorrow.  I am hosting a camp called Lagniappe. This is a Cajun word meaning unexpected gift or bonus. It is the name that the local Naked Tuesday group adopted, so I decided it would be a good title for 'our' camp at the weekend event.

L = Let's
A = All
G = Get
N = Naked
I = In
A = A
P = People
P = Positive
E = Environment

This theme will be Free Range Gaming. Including a Ping Pong Pavilion, Volleyball Court, Darts, Bocce, Croquet, Slip-n-slide, and many others. All games are clothing optional, but the weather this weekend may make clothing a desired attribute. Estimates of approximately 350 attendees.

I have volunteered to help various other camps, including the Effigy Camp and Temple. This has led me to be a 'go-to' guy for engineering and planning assistance. Needless to say, the last 2 weeks have been busy.

One of my burner friends, Angie, asked for help downsizing her swing contraption that has been a big draw at previous events. It is a structure 8' tall with 6 sides containing swings and other suspension devices for the more acrobatic burners. The 6-sides has been an erection nightmare for her and she wanted help scaling it down to 4-sides.

Over the past 3 afternoons, we have been busy on this project in my backyard, mostly working nude.

It was a very enjoyable experience, working with a good friend, in our most comfortable state of dress. The spring days were absolutely perfect for the physical activities. So, it just made sense.

No photos were taken, no real notice was made about the fact that we were clothesfree. It was simply a few enjoyable days with a good friend.

BUT! In this day of social media and constantly sharing, were we negligent in our responsibilities? Should we have shared this wonderful experience with the world? Is that so important that it becomes a driver in our day-to-day activities?

I truly appreciate Jbee's and other poster's photos and in depth descriptions of their experiences in 'Free Range Naturism'. Sometimes I simply am too tied up in the enjoyment of the experience to think about all of those people that would love to hear about the details?

Am I selfish?

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Re: Selfish
« Reply #1 on: March 17, 2023, 06:47:34 AM »
Selfish...YOU...never!!

 Maybe, neglectful, disappointing, a tease? Oh woah from my over exaggerated sense of abandonment and entitlement. ;) ;D Jus'kiddin'

Glad you had fun. I'd like to hear about the burn, even pics.

We had the annual piano burn a couple of weeks ago. Only three pianos and a huge head this year. The head had been carried to represent a friend of the surfer band for three years in the Tucson Dia De Los Muertes Procession. They thought that it was time and place to let go of him, some more.

Ever play an out of tune piano while it is in flames? Sometimes they make strange sounds. The keys glow in different colors. Some palates and dried out Christmas trees also...it was fun. Didn't get naked and dance this year...the hernia healing fritz-ed that.

I have gathered boxes of toilet paper and kitchen paper tubing and some other cardboard. Inspired by Nuduke's art a few years ago. I'll need to experiment, as I want to get fire to shoot out the tubes, before they burn.
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Re: Selfish
« Reply #2 on: March 22, 2023, 11:46:34 PM »
Hey, Jbee, glad to hear you're taking up the noble art of cardboard effigy building and burning.  Being American I guess you'll make it a BIG burning man!


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Ever play an out of tune piano while it is in flames?
Hilarious!!  I've played an upright piano whilst 4 guys were carrying it down a flight of stairs but nothing so sublime as a flaming one!!
What's the "annual piano burn"??  Wha? Who? Why?
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Re: Selfish
« Reply #3 on: March 23, 2023, 09:13:58 AM »
No bigger than My cardboard rolls can with.

Something like 23 years of burning pianos, which come from local piano stores. They set them up after local piano guys get enough that are not fixable. A sweat community member has a huge pit where they excavated fill dirt to build the local highway. It's a good place to make a fire as it may be 40 feet deep.
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Re: Selfish
« Reply #4 on: March 23, 2023, 09:19:24 PM »
No bigger than My cardboard rolls can with.

Something like 23 years of burning pianos, which come from local piano stores. They set them up after local piano guys get enough that are not fixable. A sweat community member has a huge pit where they excavated fill dirt to build the local highway. It's a good place to make a fire as it may be 40 feet deep.
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I've broken up a junk piano.  The iron harp is not easy to break.  Wouldn't burn either.  Do the wires go "TWANG" when the piano burns?   
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« Reply #5 on: March 24, 2023, 03:35:21 AM »
Sometimes. I don't know why that isn't consistent. My friend has made a fence around his place out of the harps. It looks good and unique.
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« Reply #6 on: March 25, 2023, 05:33:18 PM »
No pianos were harmed in our burn.

The theme this year was "The Door to Otter Space!" The effigy was a structure representing the theme. It consisted of a wood structure measuring 16' wide X 16' tall X 4' deep.  I had a couple old doors that were used as entry/exit and a couch to sacrifice with the effigy.

I volunteered to help construct the structure and spent 3 Saturdays to that end. I quickly learned that the effigy lead had more imagination than practical sense. He had no idea how to physically construct the structure.  I became his best friend over the course of construction. It was built in his back yard.

We constructed it as 2ea - 4' X 4' X 16' towers, joined together with 8' spans.  There were 4ea - 4' tall levels broken into chambers (rooms). All would be enclosed by plywood at the property. Ladders were in place to transition between levels.

Once the framing was complete and it was time to transfer the structure 150 miles to the property, no thought was given as to getting the structure from the back yard to the trailer. The lead was simply planning to disassemble the entire structure for reassembly on property.  I suggested taking the 8' span apart, leaving the 4' towers for transport. A section of his privacy fence would need to be removed to get these towers to the trailer. I offered a trailer axle to use as a cart to move the towers. That apparently worked as planned. I had a schedule conflict and could not participate in that effort.

I am not a fan of this part of the Burningman philosophy, to create then destroy an object of art. It is wasteful and futile in my mind, but I understand that art has a cost and is unique to each that experience it. So be it.

I also spent considerable time assisting others with their respective roles in the event, often feeling like I was chasing my own tail trying to be helpful for people that clearly had little vision of their objective or path to achieve it.

So, I focused on my own camp, Lagniappe, Free Range Gaming. Our group includes other members of the local burner group so I thought there would be ample help in organizing and participating in the camp.

Weather forecasts were not encouraging. One of the Pacific fronts was to come through Thursday night dropping temperatures significantly, in addition to dire expectations of high winds, heavy rain and HAIL! Not the forecast you want when you are planning to sleep in a nylon tent.

So, my fellow campers had the good sense to lay out Thursday and arrive Friday. I got to build our theme camp alone on Thursday. I did have occasional help from other burners.  So, it was an enjoyable day putting things together, clothesfree. Weather on Thursday was nearly 80oF. I also had time to assist the Fire Team fill water cubes and play with their pumps. The "Naked Fireman" was even quicker to a clothesfree state than me, if you can believe that!

The weather hit about 10:30 pm. It began with an awe inspiring lightning show. The entire night sky filled with cloud lightning, nothing appearing to hit the ground. It passed completely over us before any rain fell. Then the rain fell, then the hail, then the wind. Gusts of up to 65mph against my Academy special. As I burrowed into the depths of the layers I had prepared, a constant mist was coming through the nylon, dampening my head and pillow, but the rest of me stayed warm and dry. I was on a cot and everything inside the tent was off the floor, mostly.

I was awakened at 2:36 am, to a loud crash. I could imagine all kinds of upheaval, but when I got the nerve to investigate, everything seemed to be holding it's own. The 30+ year old pavilion and ping pong table were taking the storm in stride. everything I had placed under the table stayed amazingly dry and undisturbed. 

The weather on Friday continued to be windy and cold. Definitely weather making clothing desirable. Saturday was a bit colder, but calm. When I crawled out Saturday morning it was under 40oF, but I was comfortable stoking the fire and grinding the beans for coffee, clothesfree. I put on a parka soon after, then wore only a shirt the rest of the day. Except for a volunteer shift (6 hrs) of Rangering.

The effigy burn Saturday night was okay. I wore a coat, planning to cast it aside once the burn initiated. But, this seemed to me anti-climatic

Sunday turned warm enough that I dismantled the camp clothesfree.

The main attraction in our camp was the Ping Pong Pavilion. We also had a lighted dart board, LED volleyball, LED bocce and croquet. I was planning to build a Slip-n-slide into the river, but the cold forecast made this less attractive. Darts and ping pong were played throughout Friday and Saturday nights.

There were too many other camps to describe here, but you can find out more at https://www.houstonburners.org/featured-theme-camps-fundraisers/. This is the Facebook page with many photos https://www.facebook.com/groups/unbrokenspring.

Our camp was across the path from a 'sound camp' that played techno and rave music late into the night. This was my greatest miscalculation.  A mistake I will not repeat.

The community was wonderful. Genuine people doing what they feel reflects their inner selves. Too many were significantly impaired, but that didn't distract me.

One guy from Albuquerque brought a trailer constructed as a beetle. The wings would raise exposing a bed of wheatgrass. He would offer scissors for participants to cut a bunch of grass then put them into his chest mounted juicer to produce "Betelgeuse". He is a metal fabricator/artist, who also brought a vertical rotisserie which was used to roast hot dogs, sausage, vegetables, etc.

He stayed at my place over several days before heading back to Albuquerque on Thursday. I will have to look him up when I make a free ranging trip to NM and AZ in the not too distant future.

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Re: Selfish
« Reply #7 on: March 26, 2023, 06:21:25 PM »
Nice report Safebare!
Pity about the weather.

So was this camp clothes optional or were you naked anyway despite it not being specifically CO, or was it a truly free, emancipated community that did anything and everything re clothing or not and tolerated all?
Was the naked fireman a state/county fire service member on duty?  Did he get naked doing his job?  Was he with colleagues?  If so, I'm surprised the colleagues didn't find a spurious health & Safety reason for having him in fireman's garb!  Or were the firemen simply some campers that were delegated to look after fire risk?
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Re: Selfish
« Reply #8 on: March 28, 2023, 05:48:37 AM »
Ditto. "Naked Fireman?"
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« Reply #9 on: April 02, 2023, 12:07:15 AM »
Clothing is certainly optional.
The 10 Principles of Burning Man include Radical Self-expression. Whatever you feel expresses your inner self is accepted. I was nude for most of UBS 2022, except when on 'duty'. I certainly was able to promote non=sexual nudity last year, this year, not so much. People accepted this as me expressing myself. Many joined in. Several camp are very sexually focused and nudity is certainly part of their thing, but more 'lifestyle' focused, certainly not nudist or naturist.

The 'Naked Fireman' was a volunteer leader of the Fire Team. He was in full Turnout Gear for the actual burn, but was nude other times, weather permitting. He actually wore a robe while driving his buggy around the property looking for fire hazards when the weather was not nude friendly. He was nude all day Thursday and Sunday when the weather was accommodating. He does work for an area fire department, I believe as an officer of some type. It is his career.  I do not know if others at his station are aware of his naked proclivities.

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« Reply #10 on: May 30, 2023, 09:42:03 PM »
No photos were taken, no real notice was made about the fact that we were clothesfree. It was simply a few enjoyable days with a good friend.

BUT! In this day of social media and constantly sharing, were we negligent in our responsibilities? Should we have shared this wonderful experience with the world? Is that so important that it becomes a driver in our day-to-day activities?

I truly appreciate Jbee's and other poster's photos and in depth descriptions of their experiences in 'Free Range Naturism'. Sometimes I simply am too tied up in the enjoyment of the experience to think about all of those people that would love to hear about the details?

Am I selfish?

~Safebare

While I enjoy seeing others' photos and reading their accounts, and I enjoy sharing my own, there's certainly nothing selfish about simply enjoying whatever activity you're enjoying, without having to produce a shareable event from it!

I've found that sometimes, you see the best sights and experience the best experiences when there's no camera to record it. A good example is that, after literally hundreds of miles that I've hiked nude in southern California's Deep Creek canyon, I had yet to see a Mojave Green rattlesnake. The snake is native to the area, and doesn't exist outside the Mojave desert region. One day, I decided to leave the camera behind and just hike my own hike. Sure enough, I came face-to-face with a big Mojave Green. We met, unexpectedly for both of us, on a narrow trail through a grassy area along the creek in the riparian zone. The snake immediately coiled itself right there in the trail, buzzing intently. There's something primal about standing naked within strike range of such a beautiful and dangerous creature! We contemplated each other for a few moments, neither wanting any conflict. I stepped slowly back a bit, the snake uncoiled and disappeared into the grass. That's when I thought...I should've had my camera! No, I shouldn't have!
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« Reply #11 on: May 31, 2023, 12:47:07 AM »
The Tortolita Mountains have four kinds of rattlesnake and a variety of markings more than that. They have arrived in hay and strawbales from California to the west in Marana, a farming ranch area.

I jumped over a big green Mohave in the grass near my property line. Beautiful critter. I still don't know how I didn't step right on it.

My adrenaline goes up and over amps, I feel particularly naked, until I put my high cowboy boots on and have my catcher ready. Then, my adrenaline has been known to make me slice off the head instead of catch it.

On the trail, I treat it like I'm in their territory and wait for them to leave. a couple of times I have had them misunderstand my intentions a hold their place at strike ready in the middle of the trail. A very long stick, or tree branch was used to swish them off the trail, where they just felt safe and crawled away. I give them "very" wide birth.

I don't take pictures. They would probably be blurry and their whereabouts along with their mates is my focus.
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« Reply #12 on: June 01, 2023, 06:57:17 PM »
We've got almost every kind of North American snake in Arkansas, except the Mojave and Sidewinder, and maybe few distinctly regional kinds of rattlesnakes. Rattlers are easy enough to deal with, being pretty quick to announce themselves. Copperheads are the ones that are more difficult. They blend in to the environment so well, and then they take the "quiet and still" approach, hoping you'll just not notice them. It's pretty easy to step on them. On the other hand, their bite and venom is not usually as bad as a big rattler. We've also got a lot of Cottonmouths, but they stay close to, or on the water. They're pretty "honest" about their presence, too, it's just visual instead of audible. They blend in, but that big wide white mouth will get your attention.
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« Reply #13 on: June 01, 2023, 10:42:21 PM »
I stay away from tall grass like the invasive bufflegrass, where they may be hanging out and  won't see them under the low canopy. They often don't rattle if I'm just passing through.

I've got some thick lightweight Nauga rubbery fake leather that I intend to make gators out of for places like that.
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« Reply #14 on: June 04, 2023, 10:11:06 PM »
Quote from: jbee
There's something primal about standing naked within strike range of such a beautiful and dangerous creature!
Blimey!  There's something bowel-openingly frightening about it too, I feel!
Thank goodness snakes isn't something we have to bother about in the UK.  We only have 2 species:  The Grass Snake which is a small constrictor so not poisonous and the Adder which is poisonous and will bite but the bite is rarely lethal, but fairly horrible causing an assortment of symptoms including nausea, diarrhoea and vomiting, mental confusion etc etc.  However, both snakes are rare and retiring in their habits.  Never seen one alive but have encountered a slough of a grass snake once.
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