I notice that I am nearly always naked. When I'm not, I'm ready to disrobe and looking for an opportunity. It would be rare that I didn't take an opportunity, unless it was an extreme hassle, or just too, quick to take the trouble, or uncomfortable.
I was at a weekend party/festival at a friends place. It is a place where we are generally nude and accepted. The circumstance didn't make naked appropriate, so I was dressed most of the weekend, except a solo stroll out in the desert in the morning, where I had parked to sleep out rather than drive two hours home. DF was occupied elsewhere in the state.
On Sunday, we played a small concert in the acoustic sweatlodge. It was packed and getting hot, even though the place wasn't then heated, just a venue with fun acoustics. There were a few comments like "Why do we have clothes on?" After the show, it was okayed by the owner to turn on the heater. A few of us got naked and had an extra concert, this time without instruments that couldn't take the heat. We played didgeridoo and big water bottles for drums. Didn't have to tell me twice, but most of us stayed outside and dressed. There were strangers and I suppose that those staying clothed didn't feel the usual comfort zone. Others were expected, etc. Not deterred, we in minority stuck with our program on a beautiful day.
After the sweat/sauna, I sat at a long full table dinning. There was one nude female friend next to me. A guy took over that was having trouble with his drinking and had decided to confess to us all. He went on with a tale of whaoh. After a time, he told how he liked being there, as he felt so accepted and appreciated it. He pointed out, "Talk about acceptance. Look there are two naked people sitting here across from me." I looked in the wrong direction, away from my nude cohort, as everyone else looked at us. I mimed like, "Where?" Then I looked at the woman next to me and said, "Well, there's 'one' here." like I didn't realize that I was barefoot all over. She did the same, as if she didn't know that she wasn't clothed. Then, we pointed as if we had just realized that we were comfortable enough to not be aware of our natural state. Ya know, it didn't matter that we were dressed, or not, socially, except to our bodily senses.
Well, sun going down, air cooling, electric music beginning on the stage and more people arriving for that, I put clothing back on. After a bit, I drove back to town to see DF, but I got undressed before I left. After a couple of hours accepted without, it just seemed right to be that way...and wrong to stay covered.
Jbee