She seems to recognize some activities as practical when done nude. She has her own concept of everything in its place. She has yet to recognize the expansion of those boundaries seeing nudity as the primary norm over clothing, as she doesn’t understand the value, health and liberty of exposing the body’s skin to its world. That feels out of place, but she is attempting to accommodate you. I’m curious. Do you think that whether you define your behavior, or identity as “naturist,” or as “a naturist,” or “nudist” would affect her judgement and how she complies to the new norms that you are both heading toward?
There is more education to do. Associating nude with pleasing sensuality, relaxation and good heath in her mind will increase her adaptation. The spa will help immensely. I’m glad that that is something that you both have interest in. For most, clothing in a spa, especially with one’s own husband, becomes silly and impractical very quickly. It creates these associations and change begins. We are all naturists, but most still don’t realize it yet. Small comments like, how good new sheets, or clean ones feel nude, the newly discovered “euphoria” of sunshine, air, sprinkles, stretching exercises, etc., slowly break down resistance, if they are presented with a smile and increments. Like, “Wow, I never realized how good that could feel,” “wow, I just can’t get over how….” If you begin to do things that you never did for yourself out in the backyard, or more regularly, because it is better nude, she might see value enough to accept more nudity in both of your lives. There is that difference between tolerance and acceptance, which will matter as change in her.
Just saying, highlighting, suggesting, just in case.
In the meantime, you have license in your own realm to wallow in rights of divine dignity, dude! Woohoo! A naturist playground, a retreat into reality, piece of what is right in your life.
You have a healthy running walking 3 mile course to establish patterns of healthy alone activities away from home. You have maps, satellite photos, personal drive, transportation, craft and countryside, which must “bare” fruit for you. You’ve got it all! All you need to do is make use of the opportunities that are being presented to you and enjoy it.
Shall I assume that your gully by the golf course is history?
Jbee