Women's perspectives are as varied as the other gender. Some match men's, some women are angry at the crap to endure, others are okay with that and for various reasons. I had a prejudiced woman attempting to lay her ignorance on me, just because of my gender. She required me to take a couple of courses and read a bunch of things, before she would work with me on our Sweat organizations code of conduct. When she found out that I was totally aware of all of it before hand and even I had things to teach her, she was shocked and the chip fell off of her shoulder.
So, some of us require a women's perspective more than other men, some women require a man's perspective. When holding fast to the gender prejudices that is blatant sexism.
I think that both genders are still coming out of a highly repressed and oppressed era. Our sexuality and our sense of gender superiority, we are all victims. Our mix of gender traits manifests in both sexes in various amounts, yet defenders of liberation persist in perpetrating the myth of masculine and feminine qualities as being black and white, cut and dry. For one small example, men wear pants and women dresses and skirts, it is all about covering up and sexualization of the body. Women can now wear pants. One of my old girlfriend's had to go to court to wear pants. Women got harassed. A man wearing a skirt on a hot day, may get beaten, or murdered. Men short hair, women long. I had to do walkouts and organize and prepare for lawsuits just about not being short haired men. Men don't cry, women at the drop of a hat. Men are voyeurs, women don't care about looks. Men will screw anybody, women don't like sex and orgasms are their imagination. The gay issues are sexual stigmatizing. The fact is that most people are on a line with lots of variations in between, on a given day. More? Men are aggressive, women are more peaceful. The crap goes on and on. It is mostly a cultural thing, a family orientation thing, a social belief. I'm saying that bottom line, we are all victims of the gender thing and the solution is equality, acceptance, awareness on an individual basis.
It isn't just a women's lib, women's issues thing. None of us are free until we are all free.
Bob, I remember wearing Burmuda shorts all summer and getting harassed in the Fall in P.E. class for my weird tanlines!...come to thing about it, they were pretty dang weird looking!
Jbee